๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡ท Lesson 4: Greetings & Essential Phrases

You can read Hangul and you know why Korean words sound the way they do. Now let's use them with people. In this lesson you'll learn to say hello and goodbye (Korean has two goodbyes), introduce yourself, thank and apologise, and ask the questions every beginner needs. You'll also get a first look at something English doesn't have: speech levels, where the ending of a sentence shows how polite you are being.

๐Ÿ“– Speech Levels in Korean

Korean has multiple speech levels based on formality and politeness. As a beginner, focus on two:

LevelNameWhen to UseEnding
Formal Politeํ•ฉ์‡ผ์ฒด (hapsyo-che)Business, presentations, news, formal first meetings-์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค / -ใ…‚๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
Informal Politeํ•ด์š”์ฒด (haeyo-che)Everyday conversations, most situations โ€” including with strangers-์•„์š” / -์–ด์š”

Think of it like the difference between "Good afternoon, how may I help you?" and "Hi, what can I get you?" โ€” both are polite, one is more formal. Many phrases in this lesson come in both versions. You'll learn to build these endings yourself in Lesson 7 and study the whole system in Lesson 13; for now, learn each phrase as a whole.

โš ๏ธ Important: ์กด๋Œ“๋ง (Polite Speech)

Always use polite speech (์กด๋Œ“๋ง) with people you've just met, people older than you, or in formal situations. Using casual speech (๋ฐ˜๋ง) with the wrong person is considered very rude in Korean culture. When in doubt, stay polite โ€” nobody is offended by too much politeness.

๐Ÿ‘‹ Basic Greetings

KoreanRomanizationMeaningWhen to Use
์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”annyeonghaseyoHelloAny time of day, any polite situation
์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๊นŒannyeonghasimnikkaHello (very formal)Business, military, formal speeches
์•ˆ๋…•annyeongHi / Bye (casual)Close friends, younger people only
์•ˆ๋…•ํžˆ ๊ฐ€์„ธ์š”annyeonghi gaseyoGoodbye (to the person leaving)You're staying, they're going
์•ˆ๋…•ํžˆ ๊ณ„์„ธ์š”annyeonghi gyeseyoGoodbye (to the person staying)You're leaving, they're staying

โœ… Two Ways to Say Goodbye!

Korean has two goodbyes depending on who's leaving. ์•ˆ๋…•ํžˆ ๊ฐ€์„ธ์š” literally means "go in peace" and ์•ˆ๋…•ํžˆ ๊ณ„์„ธ์š” means "stay in peace". If you're both leaving (say, parting on the street), you both say ์•ˆ๋…•ํžˆ ๊ฐ€์„ธ์š”.

๐ŸŒค๏ธ More Everyday Expressions

KoreanRomanizationMeaning / When to Use
์ฒ˜์Œ ๋ต™๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹คcheoeum boepgetseumnidaHow do you do? (very polite, first meeting)
๋งŒ๋‚˜์„œ ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ‘์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹คmannaseo bangapseumnidaNice to meet you (formal)
๋งŒ๋‚˜์„œ ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ€์›Œ์š”mannaseo bangawoyoNice to meet you (polite)
์˜ค๋žœ๋งŒ์ด์—์š”oraenmanieyoLong time no see
์ž˜ ์ง€๋ƒˆ์–ด์š”?jal jinaesseoyo?How have you been?
๋„ค, ์ž˜ ์ง€๋ƒˆ์–ด์š”ne, jal jinaesseoyoYes, I've been well
๋˜ ๋งŒ๋‚˜์š”tto mannayoSee you again
์•ˆ๋…•ํžˆ ์ฃผ๋ฌด์„ธ์š”annyeonghi jumuseyoGood night (to an elder, very polite)
์ž˜ ์ž์š”jal jayoGood night (to a friend or equal)
์ž˜ ๋จน๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹คjal meokgetseumnidaSaid before eating ("I will eat well")
์ž˜ ๋จน์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹คjal meogeotseumnidaSaid after eating ("I ate well โ€” thank you")
์–ด์„œ ์˜ค์„ธ์š”eoseo oseyoWelcome! (what shop staff say as you enter)
์ˆ˜๊ณ ํ•˜์…จ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹คsugohasyeotseumnidaThank you for your hard work (after work or a task)

๐Ÿค Self-Introduction (์ž๊ธฐ์†Œ๊ฐœ)

Here's a standard self-introduction pattern you can customize:

KoreanEnglish
์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.Hello.
์ €๋Š” [์ด๋ฆ„]์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.I am [name].
๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.I am American.
๋งŒ๋‚˜์„œ ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ‘์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.Nice to meet you.
์ž˜ ๋ถ€ํƒ๋“œ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.I look forward to getting to know you. (literally "I ask you to treat me well")

Key Vocabulary

KoreanRomanizationMeaning
์ €jeoI/me (humble, polite)
๋‚˜naI/me (casual)
๋Š”/์€neun/euntopic marker (explained in Lesson 5)
์ด๋ฆ„ireumname
์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹คimnidais/am (formal)
์ด์—์š”/์˜ˆ์š”ieyo/yeyois/am (informal polite)
์‚ฌ๋žŒsaramperson
ํ•™์ƒhaksaengstudent

๐Ÿ™ Essential Polite Expressions

KoreanRomanizationMeaning
๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹คgamsahamnidaThank you (formal)
๊ณ ๋ง™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹คgomapseumnidaThank you (formal, native Korean word)
๊ณ ๋งˆ์›Œ์š”gomawoyoThank you (informal polite)
์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹คjoesonghamnidaI'm sorry (formal)
๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด์š”mianhaeyoI'm sorry (informal polite)
๋„คneYes
์•„๋‹ˆ์š”aniyoNo
๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„์š”gwaenchanayoIt's okay / I'm fine
์‹ค๋ก€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹คsillyehamnidaExcuse me (getting attention)
์ €๊ธฐ์š”jeogiyoExcuse me! (calling someone, like a waiter)
์ž ๊น๋งŒ์š”jamkkanmanyoJust a moment, please

โ“ Useful Questions

KoreanRomanizationMeaning
์ด๋ฆ„์ด ๋ญ์˜ˆ์š”?ireumi mwoyeyo?What's your name?
์–ด๋””์—์„œ ์™”์–ด์š”?eodieseo wasseoyo?Where are you from?
ํ•œ๊ตญ์–ด ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”?hangugeo hal su isseoyo?Can you speak Korean?
์ดํ•ดํ–ˆ์–ด์š”?ihaehaesseoyo?Do you understand? (literally "Did you understand?")
๋ญ๋ผ๊ณ ์š”?mworagoyo?What did you say? / Pardon?
์˜์–ด ํ•˜์„ธ์š”?yeongeo haseyo?Do you speak English?
๋‹ค์‹œ ํ•œ๋ฒˆ ๋งํ•ด ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.dasi hanbeon malhae juseyo.Please say that once more.
์ฒœ์ฒœํžˆ ๋งํ•ด ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.cheoncheonhi malhae juseyo.Please speak slowly.

๐Ÿงฉ Grammar in Action

No grammar lesson comes before this one โ€” Lessons 1โ€“3 gave you the alphabet and the sound rules instead. So let's put those rules to work on today's phrases. Almost every greeting you just learned contains a rule from Lesson 3; this is why they sound different from how they're spelled.

WrittenPronouncedRule from Lesson 3
๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค[๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•จ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค]nasalization: ใ…‚ + ใ„ด โ†’ ใ… + ใ„ด
๋ฐ˜๊ฐ‘์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค[๋ฐ˜๊ฐ‘์”€๋‹ˆ๋‹ค]tensification (ใ…‚ + ใ…… โ†’ ใ…†), then nasalization
์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ[์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์‹ฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ]nasalization
๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„์š”[๊ดœ์ฐจ๋‚˜์š”]ใ…Ž drops before a vowel, ใ„ด links
ํ•™์ƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค[ํ•™์Œฉ์ž„๋‹ˆ๋‹ค]tensification, then nasalization
ํ•œ๊ตญ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค[ํ•œ๊ตญ ์‚ฌ๋ผ๋ฐˆ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค]linking (ใ… โ†’ ๋ฐˆ), then nasalization
๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ ์™”์–ด์š”[๋ฏธ๊ตฌ๊ฒŒ์„œ ์™€์จ์š”]linking twice

๐Ÿ’ก Preview: saying "I am โ€ฆ" โ€” two fixed frames

You've already used two ways of saying "I am [name]". For now, treat them as ready-made frames; Lesson 5 explains exactly how they work.

FrameExampleStyle
์ €๋Š” โ€ฆ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค์ €๋Š” ๋ ˆ์ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. / ์ €๋Š” ์ˆ˜์ง„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.formal โ€” works after any name
์ €๋Š” โ€ฆ ์˜ˆ์š”์ €๋Š” ๋ ˆ์ด์˜ˆ์š”.informal polite โ€” name ends in a vowel
์ €๋Š” โ€ฆ ์ด์—์š”์ €๋Š” ์ˆ˜์ง„์ด์—์š”.informal polite โ€” name ends in a consonant

Notice the Lesson 3 link: ์ˆ˜์ง„์ด์—์š” is said [์ˆ˜์ง€๋‹ˆ์—์š”] โ€” the ใ„ด carries over to the next syllable.

๐Ÿ’ฌ Dialogue: Meeting Someone New

SpeakerKoreanEnglish
Ray์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”! ์ฒ˜์Œ ๋ต™๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ €๋Š” ๋ ˆ์ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.Hello! How do you do? I'm Ray.
Sujin์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์ €๋Š” ๊น€์ˆ˜์ง„์ด์—์š”. ๋งŒ๋‚˜์„œ ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ€์›Œ์š”!Hello. I'm Kim Sujin. Nice to meet you!
Ray์ €๋„ ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ€์›Œ์š”. ์ˆ˜์ง„ ์”จ, ์–ด๋””์—์„œ ์™”์–ด์š”?Nice to meet you too. Sujin, where are you from?
Sujin์„œ์šธ์—์„œ ์™”์–ด์š”. ๋ ˆ์ด ์”จ๋Š”์š”?I'm from Seoul. How about you, Ray?
Ray๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ ์™”์–ด์š”. ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด์—์š”.I'm from America. I'm American.
Sujin์•„, ๊ทธ๋ž˜์š”? ํ•œ๊ตญ์–ด ์ž˜ํ•˜์‹œ๋„ค์š”!Oh, really? You speak Korean well!
Ray์•„๋‹ˆ์—์š”. ์•„์ง ์ž˜ ๋ชปํ•ด์š”.Not at all. I'm not good at it yet.
Sujin๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„์š”. ์ž˜ ๋ถ€ํƒํ•ด์š”!That's fine. I look forward to getting to know you!
Ray๋„ค, ์ž˜ ๋ถ€ํƒ๋“œ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.Yes, likewise.
๐Ÿ’ก Culture Note โ€” ์”จ (ssi): ์”จ is an honorific like "Mr./Ms." attached to a person's full name or first name. Never use ์”จ with just a last name โ€” that's rude. Say "์ˆ˜์ง„ ์”จ" or "๊น€์ˆ˜์ง„ ์”จ", not "๊น€ ์”จ." Never use ์”จ about yourself, and don't use it for someone clearly senior to you โ€” a teacher is ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜, not "[name] ์”จ".
๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡ท Culture Note โ€” bows, modesty and "Have you eaten?": A greeting usually comes with a small bow of the head; the more formal the moment, the deeper the bow. When someone compliments your Korean, the natural reply is modest โ€” ์•„๋‹ˆ์—์š” ("not at all"), exactly as Ray does above โ€” rather than "thank you". And between people who know each other, ๋ฐฅ ๋จน์—ˆ์–ด์š”? ("Have you eaten?") often works as a friendly "how are you?" rather than a real question about lunch.

๐ŸŒ Countries & Nationalities

CountryKoreanNationality (+ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ)
Koreaํ•œ๊ตญํ•œ๊ตญ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ
USA๋ฏธ๊ตญ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ
Japan์ผ๋ณธ์ผ๋ณธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ
China์ค‘๊ตญ์ค‘๊ตญ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ
Philippinesํ•„๋ฆฌํ•€ํ•„๋ฆฌํ•€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ
UK์˜๊ตญ์˜๊ตญ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ
Canada์บ๋‚˜๋‹ค์บ๋‚˜๋‹ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ
Australiaํ˜ธ์ฃผํ˜ธ์ฃผ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ

โš ๏ธ Common Mistakes

โœ๏ธ Exercises

Exercise 1 โ€” What do you say?

  1. You're leaving a friend's home; the friend stays. โ†’ _____ (Answer: ์•ˆ๋…•ํžˆ ๊ณ„์„ธ์š”)
  2. Your guest is leaving your home. โ†’ _____ (Answer: ์•ˆ๋…•ํžˆ ๊ฐ€์„ธ์š”)
  3. Just before you start a meal someone has served you. โ†’ _____ (Answer: ์ž˜ ๋จน๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค)
  4. After you've finished that meal. โ†’ _____ (Answer: ์ž˜ ๋จน์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค)
  5. Calling a server over in a restaurant. โ†’ _____ (Answer: ์ €๊ธฐ์š”)
  6. A very formal first meeting: ์ฒ˜์Œ _____ (Answer: ๋ต™๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค)
  7. Saying good night to your grandmother. โ†’ _____ (Answer: ์•ˆ๋…•ํžˆ ์ฃผ๋ฌด์„ธ์š”)

Exercise 2 โ€” Translate into Korean

  1. 'Thank you' (formal, Sino-Korean ๊ฐ์‚ฌ) โ†’ _____ (Answer: ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค)
  2. 'I'm sorry' (formal) โ†’ _____ (Answer: ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค)
  3. 'It's okay' โ†’ _____ (Answer: ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„์š”)
  4. 'No' โ†’ _____ (Answer: ์•„๋‹ˆ์š”)
  5. 'Long time no see' โ†’ _____ (Answer: ์˜ค๋žœ๋งŒ์ด์—์š”)
  6. 'Nice to meet you' (formal) โ†’ ๋งŒ๋‚˜์„œ _____ (Answer: ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ‘์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค)
  7. 'I am Ray' (formal) โ†’ ์ €๋Š” ๋ ˆ์ด_____ (Answer: ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค)

Exercise 3 โ€” Countries and nationalities

  1. 'a Japanese person' โ†’ _____ (Answer: ์ผ๋ณธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ)
  2. 'a Chinese person' โ†’ _____ (Answer: ์ค‘๊ตญ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ)
  3. 'a Canadian' โ†’ _____ (Answer: ์บ๋‚˜๋‹ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ)
  4. 'the UK' โ†’ _____ (Answer: ์˜๊ตญ)
  5. 'Australia' โ†’ _____ (Answer: ํ˜ธ์ฃผ)

Exercise 4 โ€” Say it like a Korean (write the pronunciation in Hangul)

  1. How is ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ‘์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค pronounced? โ†’ [_____] (Answer: ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ‘์”€๋‹ˆ๋‹ค)
  2. How is ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„์š” pronounced? โ†’ [_____] (Answer: ๊ดœ์ฐจ๋‚˜์š”)
  3. How is ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์‹ญ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ pronounced? โ†’ [_____] (Answer: ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์‹ฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ)
  4. How is ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ pronounced? โ†’ [_____] (Answer: ๋ฏธ๊ตฌ๊ฒŒ์„œ)
  5. How is ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค pronounced? โ†’ [_____] (Answer: ์ฃ„์†กํ•จ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค)

๐Ÿง  Check Your Understanding

Q1: How do you say goodbye to someone who is leaving?

Q2: What's the formal way to say "thank you"?

Q3: Which is the correct way to address your new colleague Park Jiyeon?

Q4: Someone says "ํ•œ๊ตญ์–ด ์ž˜ํ•˜์‹œ๋„ค์š”!" What is the most natural reply?

โ“ Common Questions

What does ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š” literally mean?

์•ˆ๋…• means "peace" or "well-being", and ํ•˜์„ธ์š” is a polite, respectful form of "do/be". So ์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š” is roughly "Are you at peace?" โ€” which is why you can say it at any time of day, to anyone, and why the goodbyes ์•ˆ๋…•ํžˆ ๊ฐ€์„ธ์š” and ์•ˆ๋…•ํžˆ ๊ณ„์„ธ์š” ("go / stay in peace") use the same word.

๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค or ๊ณ ๋ง™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค โ€” which is more polite?

Both are formal and both are fine in almost any situation. ๊ฐ์‚ฌ is a Sino-Korean (Chinese-origin) word; ๊ณ ๋ง™๋‹ค is native Korean. ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค can feel slightly more formal, so it's the safe choice in shops, offices and with strangers. ๊ณ ๋งˆ์›Œ์š” is the softer informal polite version for people you know.

Should I say ๋„ค or ์˜ˆ for "yes"?

Both are correct. ๋„ค is more common in everyday speech; ์˜ˆ sounds a little more formal or old-fashioned and is often heard from older speakers and in very polite settings. Note that ๋„ค is also used simply to show you're listening โ€” "mm-hm, I'm following" โ€” not always to agree.

How do I choose between the ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค style and the ํ•ด์š” style?

For now, use the phrases exactly as you learned them: formal (ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค) for introductions in formal settings, presentations and service situations, informal polite (ํ•ด์š”) for everyday conversation. Both are polite. Lesson 13 lays out the whole system, including casual ๋ฐ˜๋ง.

๐ŸŒŸ Going Further

Challenge 1 โ€” Record yourself. Say the full self-introduction from this lesson with your own name and nationality, record it, and compare it with the ๐Ÿ”Š audio. Listen especially for [ํ•จ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค] and [๋ฐ˜๊ฐ‘์”€๋‹ˆ๋‹ค]. Record again next week โ€” hearing your own progress is the best motivation there is.

Challenge 2 โ€” Holiday greeting. At ์„ค๋‚  (Lunar New Year) Koreans say ์ƒˆํ•ด ๋ณต ๋งŽ์ด ๋ฐ›์œผ์„ธ์š” โ€” "Receive lots of luck in the new year." Work out its pronunciation using Lesson 3. (Check: [์ƒˆํ•ด ๋ด‰ ๋งˆ๋‹ˆ ๋ฐ”๋“œ์„ธ์š”].)

๐Ÿ”ฎ Looking Ahead

You've been saying ์ €๋Š” ๋ ˆ์ด์˜ˆ์š” and ์ด๋ฆ„์ด ๋ญ์˜ˆ์š”? as ready-made phrases. In Lesson 5: Sentence Basics โ€” ์ด์—์š”, ์€/๋Š” & ์ด/๊ฐ€, you'll open them up: how Korean sentences are ordered, when to use ์ด์—์š” versus ์˜ˆ์š”, and what those little particles ์€/๋Š” and ์ด/๊ฐ€ actually do. From then on you won't just repeat Korean sentences โ€” you'll build them.